Showing posts with label Talking. Show all posts
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Saturday, March 31, 2018

With Winning In Mind: How Mental Picture Is Formed (Chapter 2)


This is a chapter-by-chapter summary of a book by Lanny Bassham's With Winning in Mind (2012) series. One chapter, one article. Read this summary, buy the book. Enjoy!

Let’s keep this short and simple, Lanny Bassham writes: “Our conscious picture is formed from what we think about, talk about, and write about” (as mentioned in the previous post, or by what someone else talks to you about). So controlling your mental pictures happens by controlling what you think, talk, and write about. Simple enough.

Be careful what you wish for a picture. “The more we think about, talk about, and write about something happening, we improve the probability of that thing happening!” Now it gets really interesting. Every time you think about, talk about or write about something happening (or you picture something in your mind), you increase the odds of that thing happening.

Are you constantly telling yourself that you’ll fail a certain exam? Well, congrats! Every time you do that, you improve the probability of failing the exam. Are you telling yourself that you’ll miss the crucial penalty kick? Too bad! Every time you do that, you improve the probability of missing that penalty kick.

Lanny calls this reinforcement. Every time you create a picture in your mind, you reinforce that picture and increase the likelihood of making it a reality. You can either use positive reinforcement (great idea!) or negative reinforcement (a terrible idea!).

Think that you gonna win!
Talk about winning!
Write about winning!
Have a Winning Mindset!



Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Nurture Creativity: Mixing with Like-Minded Creative People


Like laughter, creativity is contagious. There’s nothing like mixing with creative people to nurture your own creativity. Jenny Hare, writer of Unlock Your Creativity, explains, “[Mixing with creative people] is a kind of alchemy – as though your creative souls sparkle in the air separately at first as you recognize a common creative flair, and then are magnetized to each other and dance together for a while. Ideas flow and you both feel uplifted and energized, and when you part you look forward eagerly to riding on the wave of creativity you’ve mutually started.” It sound very lofty at first as you read this, but when you really have found like-minded people that you long to be with, you just can’t wait to come back to “dance together” again.

Even though I love to hangout alone talking to myself (it’s a real fun way to discover deep hidden thoughts inside my head), I understand that I also need to mix with people, especially with like-minded creative people. For example, I once attended a motivational talk seminars by Dr. Peter Chee, president and CEO of ITD world, at Damansara. The attendees are a diverse community of bright, caring, supportive, open-minded people who are generous with their time, their learning, and their attention. It's also a great group of creative people. We had teachers, artists, university students, business people, nurses, pharmacists, author and a retiree. We were like-minded in a way that we are hunger for success in life and pursuit for continuous learning. I was struck by how simply spending time with people in a variety of other creative endeavours re-sparked my own creative juices. I found myself being more curious, more open, more optimistic, more interested and more interesting – all as a result of attending the seminar and interacting with like-minded creative people.

One of the basic tenets of creativity is to do things differently, and to do different things. So if you need to reignite your creativity, do something completely new. A simply broadening your horizons by mixing with like-minded creative people will also broaden your mind. Thus, try something new today. Here are my suggestions. Look for communities within the things you liked to do. Ask your friends or check Facebook groups (social media are great tools to find community). You will make numerous friends and strong connections from these communities. Meet people at different places such as conferences, seminars, talks or class. If you’re an activist like my colleague, then join the peaceful rally. If you love to make a difference in your community, join others to volunteer for something others might find intimidating; homeless assistance or elder care for example. You will meet people who are made of sterner stuff, and you might just learn some more about yourself. When I say mixing with like-minded people it doesn’t mean that they have to have a dozen of common hobbies or interests like you, but one or two will do. Share ideas, having fun together and mutual encouragements is the point.

Meeting with other creative people in a mutually encouraging atmosphere is a great tonic
for your soul as well as your creativity” (Jenny Hare)
Plus, mixing with like-minded creative people also can effects your happiness,
inspirations and sense of belonging.

God, Give Us Today Our Daily Idea(s)

Monday, February 10, 2014

How-To Generate Ideas #2: Break Out of Your Normal Circles



New people don't know all your thought patterns and old stories,
so you'll have to revisit your existing inner monologues.
The refreshing perspectives will help to surface new thinking
and possibly a lightning bolt or two” (Kevin Daum)

To spend a lot of time with the same people every day everywhere can get you in a thinking rut, fixed, usual, common and sometime – boring. “Always” is always an enemy of creativity. I’m not against normal fellowship or friendship, but I encourage you to expand it further. Same people with new friends are good. Getting to know your colleagues’ family is much deeper and rich. Hang out with people on the street or talk with strangers at the Kuching Waterfront will expand your views about life.

Take advantage of everyone that you know or want to know and connect with them. Choose someone who are different from you and start some exciting conversations. Chat with them on Facebook, Twitter, etc. Who know, as you talk, listen and think the casual conversations can help to surface new ideas to you. Try it!

Lord, Give Us Today Our Daily Idea(s)

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