Showing posts with label Daydreaming. Show all posts
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Saturday, April 30, 2016

Is Your Child Naturally Creative? Nine Sure Signs that They Are


I believe that creative talents are due to nature (gift) and nurture (learn) at the same time. It is a blend of the two. But some children seem to be outstandingly creative from a very young age. Victoria Wilson in her book Boost Your Child’s Creativity (The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc; 2009) listed nine signs that your child may be creatively gifted or naturally creative:

1)    They’re Often Lost in Daydreams. A vivid imagination, and a love of fantasizing and being playful with thoughts is a strong sign of a creative child.

2)    They Connect Seemingly Random Objects and Ideas in Their Fantasy Play. Of course most children love imaginary play, but a key thing to look out for is if your child connects seemingly random objects or ideas into their play or stories. For example, they are an alien descending to sample the tomato soup on planet Earth, or their pretend horse loves chatting to the flowers on his mobile phone. This ability to make unusual connections is a key trait of very creative children.

3)    They Ask Lots of Unusual Questions. Most children go through a phase of asking ‘Why?’ to everything. But if your child is always asking questions and especially if he or she comes up with very strange, seemingly silly questions such as, ‘What would happen if the sun came back up at night-time?’ or ‘Why don’t apples grow from our fingers?’ it is a strong sign they are very creative. What they are also demonstrating is the ability to rearrange elements of thought to create new ideas and the inclination to question things others take for granted.

4)    They’re Often the Odd One Out; They Don’t Dress or Act the Same Way Others Do. It’s natural for children to want to be accepted by their classmates and friends, but some children will deliberately choose to be the odd one out no matter how much pressure there is to fit in. Often this is simply because they think differently to others, and thinking differently is thinking originally.

5)    They’re Resourceful and Good at Solving Problems. Creative children are, by definition, good problem solvers because they are flexible in the way they think and adapt quickly to different situations. Also, by definition, children who are creative will have lots of ideas and potential solutions to problems.

6)    They Love Playing Alone and Can Entertain Themselves for Long Periods of Time. Of course, children need some organized activities, and there’s even some evidence that a little carefully selected TV can stimulate learning and ideas. But a child who’s naturally able to come up with ideas is usually able to find plenty to occupy him or herself. In fact, it is very hard for children who are shuttled from one arranged activity to another, or put in front of the TV for long periods every day, to be creative.

7)    They’re Often So Absorbed in What They’re Doing, They Don’t Even Hear You. Being utterly absorbed in creative play or activities is to be in what famous psychologist Abraham Maslow labelled a ‘peek experience.’ This is the ability to ‘become lost in the present.’ It’s an important ability, particularly for young children who need constant supervision, because it allows them to free themselves from interaction and interruptions by others, while remaining in their presence, so they can really focus on their own thoughts, feelings and experiences. This is essential for creativity, because it allows children to form individual and original thoughts.

8)    They’re Rebellious. Of course, sometimes this is simply bad behaviour, but the instinct to think for themselves and to be individuals will drive creative children to question parents, teachers and books. It is down to you and your innate knowledge of your own child to determine whether a demand to wear a ballerina costume to bed is an act of creative expression, or a ploy to put off bedtime…

9)    They’re Often Both Extroverts and Introverts. Psychologists have found that very creative people can often be very outgoing and very shy at different times, whereas most of the population are either one or the other.

Lord, Give Us Today Our Daily Idea(s)


Thursday, January 8, 2015

Nurture Creativity: Listen to Jason Mraz (or if You Prefer, Classical Music)


“When I sit down to write a song,
I really want the message of healing to thrive and transcend all ages”
(Jason Mraz)

Are you stuck of idea? Are you feeling overwhelmed and having a mental block? Do you feel the least bit creative? Then it’s time to get your creative juices flowing by listening to music. There are so many different things you can do such as take a walk, read a book or magazine, watch TV or movie, chat or talk to a friend. But let me focus on something that Albert Einstein loved to do – listen to music. When I read about Einstein I noticed that he listened to Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. Einstein have good taste of music after all.

The Mozart Effect
by Howard Wright, author of 100 Great Innovation Ideas (Marshall Cavendish Business, 2012)
A Study conducted by a French researcher, Dr. Alfred A. Tomatis, and published in his 1991 book Pourquoi Mozart? found that listening to Mozart promoted healing and the development of the brain. Another study in 1993 by Shaw Rauscher, found that listening to Mozart helped with ‘spatial intelligence’ although it also showed that the enhancing effect of the music was only temporary.

Although there are differing views on the benefits of classical and other types of music, the sheer act of sitting down and listening is enough to provide you with the time and space to think. If the music helps to stimulate ideas, it’s even better.

But probably you don’t like classical music. Listening to Mozart probably not you. I understand. At first I don’t like it either. Maybe you like to listen to rock music or traditional music or jazz or pop, whatever music that inspires and motivates you. Music has different effects on different people, so don’t think you have to cultivate a love for classical music just because I suggests you so. For me, Mozart is fine but I prefer Jason Mraz more. He wrote songs that have souls, great soothing voice, meaningful and heart-piercing lyrics. Mraz blend with his guitar so well that you can rely on the quality of his music either from studio recordings or live on stage. Most important of all, listen to Jason Mraz can be relaxing and therapeutic and help to clearing my mind of clutter. I can better concentrate and stimulate ideas (But I always end up sing along, whatever).

Listen to Mozart. Listen to Jason Mraz. Listen to music that will inspire you. Find your own music that suite you (btw, solitude is fine too). Find music that helps get you in that creative space, stick with it and listen to it over and over whenever you need to be in a creative frame of mind. This is important: Once you find the music that inspires and sparks your creativity, keep listening to it whenever you want ideas to flow. Say politely ‘Excuse me,’ grab that headphones and turn on the music!

Listen to music.
Listen to be in a creative frame of mind.
God, Give Us Today Our Daily Idea(s)

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Nurture Creativity: Begin with the End in Mind and Take Actions


“[Begin with the end in mind] is based on imagination –
the ability to envision in your mind what you cannot at present see with your eyes”
(Steven R. Covey)

I love Dumb and Dumber To (2014) the movie – yesterday’s series, today’s movie. I love to watch Jim Carrey acting. I love Jim Carrey and I think he is one of the most creative people in the entertainment industry. Let me tell you his story before he become a megastar. Carrey spent a lot of his earlier time dwelling on his future. He believed he possessed the talent, but he wondered if his fifteen years of experience in the comedy clubs would make him go further. Until he did, he said, he could only practise, work hard, and maintain a positive attitude.

There was one time when he could not send money home or when his comedy appearances did not fare well, a depressed Carrey would lie awake at night questioning if he had done the right thing. In his book People in the News: Jim Carrey, John F. Wukovits quoted Carrey as saying: “You lay on your bed and the thing that you think about most is, ‘What is it about me that’s special and different? What’s my thing?’ I would struggle with that, trying to define myself.”

One time he wrote a fake cheque to himself in the amount of $10 million for ‘Acting services rendered’ post-dated it for Thanksgiving 1995, and placed it in his wallet as both an encouragement and a reminder that one day he would triumph. Carrey did not sign the cheque because he hoped to be wealthy, but “I wrote it as an affirmation of everything I learned. It wasn’t about money. I knew if I was making that much, I’d be working with the best people on the best material. That’s always been my dream. My parents taught me to believe in miracles. My life is proof that they exist.”

John F. Wukovits further wrote, “Jim Carrey often drove up Mulholland Drive and parked where he had a clear view of Los Angeles. Staring at the sprawling city below, Carrey promised that one day he would succeed in the entertainment business and that he would be the toast of the town.” Yes, no doubt, Carrey did it! See what he have become today. Creative people like Jim Carrey see the future with the end in mind. They dream dreams and they ask questions that will empower themselves to do whatever it take to achieve it. Creativity in itself it not enough. Awesome idea is not enough. Talent is not enough. Like Carrey, we must work hard, practise and maintain a positive attitude. In other word, creative people take actions. But first, creative people begin with the end in mind.

Begin with the end in mind and take actions, massive actions!
Lord, Give Us Today Our Daily Idea(s)

Sunday, February 16, 2014

How-To Generate Ideas #7: Go Daydreaming




“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant.
We have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift”
(Albert Einstein)

In his book Head First!: You’re Smarter than You Think, Tony Buzan said that Leonardo Da Vinci, Albert Einstein, Martin Luther King Jr. and many other are considered true geniuses because they love to daydream. Daydreaming (or mind wandering, if you prefer that term) encourages creativity. Daydreaming is actually a great way come up with ideas – it is not a waste of time. “Daydreaming is never random”, Tony said, “The brain will daydream about future... Imagination is the source of everything. Where does pyramid come from? Imagination; where does the sphinx come from? Imagination.”

We all daydream. It’s no strange coincidence that during the time you daydream while drive along staring out the window, lying in your bed, listening to songs or playing a guitar, undertake your daily duties at work, when reading the Bible narratives, or when sitting in the toilet (my favorite place to daydream!) – many random imaginations and ideas of possibilities come to mind.

Take time to daydream. Create places to daydream. Play with it. Dream wide awake. Great ideas may just around your dreams.

Lord, Give Us Today Our Daily idea(s)

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